If you’re new to the concept of “attraction”, this is a great place for you to start, explaining what it is, how it works and how, like energy, it can be used to your advantage, as well as your disadvantage.

ATTRACTION

It’s very simple, you are going to attract from other people whatever is going on with you; what’s going on in your outside world is going to mirror, or reflect, whatever is going on in your inside world. 

You are the source of everything.

Good and bad. It all comes from within you.

Quantum physics explains that:

• Everything in the Universe is made of energy that vibrates at a certain frequency, this includes your thoughts which create energy and as such, they can be measured, each having a particular frequency.
• Your thoughts attract anything else that’s on the same frequency.
• Whatever you give, you’ll attract back (ie love and gratitude, pain and negativity)

This is the Law of Attraction, and in regards to relationships, whatever you think about, in or regarding your relationship, is what you’ll attract into it.

This all starts with you. You have to love you in order to attract it from other people, then you have to think thoughts of, and feel love for them to receive it back.

There are people who don’t believe in the Law of Attraction, they’ve tried it and it didn’t work. In the cases I’ve studied where it “didn’t work” the people only talked about their thoughts – no feelings. That’s the kicker – you’ve got to really get in the feels!! The feeling create the frequency which essentially becomes a magnet for like-frequencies.

Everything you are hoping or wanting to receive from someone else you first need to give to yourself.

You need to get your heart into a state of fullness with yourself so that it will be reflected and mirrored back to you. You need to love yourself fully, which will allow someone else to love you fully back. You need to respect and value yourself in order to be respected and valued by someone else. 

It’s really very simple – whatever we want from someone else we have to give to ourself first!! But – not just because we want it from someone else, because we deserve it, we mean it – it’s genuine. 

Every feeling we want to receive from someone else we have to give to our self. Love, respect security, validation – all of them.

If you can give it to, or feel it for someone else, you can feel it for and give it to yourself.

If you’re new to this concept it’s going to take some practice and getting used to.

If you’re currently in a relationship where things need some work, instead of trying to “change” the other person, look back at yourself, you’re probably seeing a reflection of something you need to resolve within you first.

**As with anything in life, there are abstracts. Violence and abuse are never ok – and never justifiable-  and are not in anyway reflective of what I’m referring to above. If you are in a situation of violence or abuse we can provide you with resources to find help